Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Weekly Message from Steve Warner, Head of School (January 17, 2012)

Greetings GreenMount Community,

            This morning at our meeting with the students, we talked about failure.  My goal was to have the students understand that failure is a necessary component of learning and of ultimate success.  I surprised myself as I revealed my own personal and professional failures, ranging from the trouble I got into learning to ride a bike (I crashed into my neighbor’s car, a brand new 1950 Ford convertible) to my unsuccessful attempts to emulate John Wayne’s equestrian skills to failing to reach the final four in the competition to be chosen for the Teacher in Space Program.
            We all experience failure, probably on a daily basis. But as adults, when we fail to get that project done on time or fail to resolve that conflict with our partner, we move on and try again because our experience helps us to understand that it might take some time to resolve that conflict.  And we also understand the value of investing time, strategies and repeated efforts, so that failure does not occur and we can move on to the next challenge that life hands us.  Kids don’t always get this.  They are often discouraged by failure and have a hard time seeing it as a pathway to learning.  Teachers know that while a lot is learned as we fail in life, failure itself is not necessarily the building block for success.  Success is. As a staff of educators we are always looking for those small wins upon which to build more success.  This is much more successful with children and adolescents than helping them realize that failure can be a good thing.  However, as adults, we must still teach our children that it is through failure that we grow intellectually and emotionally.  After all, failure usually comes when we try something new.  To avoid failure would be to avoid new experiences – to be safe in what we know.  So encourage your children to build on their successes, to value their failure, and to continue to try new things.

“Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure...than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat.” – Theodore Roosevelt

            Next week, we will be celebrating the Chinese New Year.  Each day we will have a different activity, culminating with a morning-long celebration on Thursday.  If you would like to help with any of the activities, please contact your child’s homeroom teacher to discuss what role you might take.
           
Cheers,
Steve