Monday, February 10, 2014

Weekly Message from Steve Warner, Head of School (February 10, 2014)

Greetings, GreenMount Community,

                As part of our ongoing professional development, I provide the staff with journal articles, which individuals volunteer to read and then report back to the staff at our next Professional Development Meeting.  Most of the these articles come from the Association for Supervision and Curriculum Development and their publication, Educational Leadership.  The beauty of this publication is that each month the journal focuses on just one topic around which many contributors submit their articles.  For example, the November issue focused on tackling informational text.  In January, the issue was devoted to student mastery.  And this month, each article addressed building school morale.
You may wonder if morale is an issue at GreenMount, and to be honest, it isn’t much of a concern.  However, two articles struck me.  The first is about the language of appreciation.  According to the author, schools typically show appreciation within the school community by having recognition programs or ceremonies.  These are fine, but a better way to show our appreciation for someone else is to speak or write to a person individually – to take the time in the course of a normal day to just say “thank you,” or recognize someone for a job well done.  This is something that our teachers try to do for students as a matter of course.  We don’t often do that for each other.  Adults often miss opportunities to show personal appreciation to colleagues and friends, according to the article.  At our staff meetings we recognize each other for the good work that we do, but even then it is not as personal and effective as an individual effort.  Another factor to consider is that some people do not like public attention, even if for a positive reason.  Those folks welcome that kind of personal recognition.
            The other article that I found interesting involves those “teachable moments” that we all refer to so often.  However, in this article the teachable moments are not those opportunities that we find to teach children, but the ones that occur and provide an opportunity for adults to learn.  Mentioned in the article is a man named Jack Kornfield, who happens to be a Buddhist monk.  In his book, A Path with Heart, Kornfield talks about treating every person or experience as an opportunity to learn.  He suggests that, instead of seeing the frustrating moments of a day as negatives, we treat each as an opportunity to grow as a person and cultivate those qualities we have to deal with people and events.
The author of the article suggests that everyone try to have at least one “Buddha Day” during which we try to find a lesson for ourselves.  So, this weekend I tried to have my Buddha Day.  The burned toast taught me to look more carefully at the inner workings of my toaster.  When I was cut off on the way to the grocery store, I tried to learn a better way to express my feelings with my wife in the car (“Drat, that motorist must be having a hard day.  Perhaps he is just now thinking what a stupid thing he just did and wishing he could apologize somehow.”).  Wegman’s on a Sunday afternoon is a mad house and a good place to learn.  The guy who gets you that piece of fish that you want (three pieces up on the left hand side) needs better directions because he can’t actually see which piece you are talking about.  I learned that you have to say, “Put your hand over the fish rack.  Now go left – No, your left.  Move toward you.  Put your hand down.”
I also learned that it’s better to watch “Love it or List It” than a PGA golf tournament.  The only thing I ever learned from watching golf was what I cannot do.  Watching home renovations in Canada taught me that there is something very strange about the value of a dollar in that country.  Happy Buddha Day!
           

Cheers,


Steve