Monday, December 12, 2011

Weekly Message from Steve Warner, Head of School (December 12, 2011)

Greetings GreenMount Community,
            At today’s Monday Morning Meeting, I asked the students to evaluate the song “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer”. We first had a quiz about how many reindeer there were (sorry, are), and then we took a look at the lyrics. We discussed how the reindeer violated our pillars! Indeed, they should be sent to Santa for behavior reflections because they were not “being aware of their impact on others,” “treating others appropriately,” “showing common courtesy,” or “being inclusive.” Who would have thought that the reindeer could be so mean? At the end of the discussion, one of our students pointed out that it all turned out because Rudolph became so famous. That led to a discussion of how people who have to overcome differences often do become leaders and famous people. Sometimes, the trials and tribulations of childhood and adolescence build character in people, and even reindeer. 
Since this is the last newsletter to you before the long holiday, I want to express to you my sincere hope that your holiday is filled with family, fun and friendship. Notice that I didn’t say anything about presents or gifts. Age has a way of helping one appreciate the things in life that truly matter and I certainly have had plenty of time to develop that appreciation. Like most families, ours has had its share of heartache and a healthy dose of good fortune. This year, distance and growing family commitments of children will leave my wife and me by ourselves for the first time on Christmas morning. As we discussed this fact, we quickly realized that we are fortunate that our children have found their partners in life, and while some still struggle, they are happy. We’ll see some of them later in the day and others later in the week. Nonetheless, it’s hard to let go of years of a tradition that in hindsight was much more important than presents. The blessing of family and friends is priceless and cannot be purchased at Wal-Mart, Target or even Nordstrom.
So, treasure the true gifts that you have - your friends, family members and your children. Have a wonderful holiday and fill it with lasting memories. I remember eating Christmas dinner and watching the tree slowly fall over onto the living room floor. My wife simply said, “Pass the potatoes,” and we all laughed. Lesson learned: If you put a tree in the corner and put all the ornaments on the outside, gravity will do its thing. Simple physics.
"During holidays, leisure replaces work as a priority. You are filled with the enthusiasm to explore, travel and learn. So indulge in laziness. Spend time with your loved ones and let your heart dance.”  Roger Bannister

Cheers!
Steve